So i dont have a lot of time, but i thought i'd do a quickie (or is it quicky?... quickey...whatever) So yeah. things have been alright. Some days are good and some days are bad... Its not that he's a bad guy or anything like that we're just so different. I dont like arguing this much... but then again, the good days we have are really sweet and good so its like, is the juice worth the squeeze? Pray that i figure that out please.
Leave me lots of comments guys i miss you all very very much. i love you.
-abby
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i guess what you have to decided is which one weights out the other one. is there more arguing than fun times because if that is the case i would say it is time to let it go. because that is how is was with my mom and dad, my mom just thought the fighting would go away and well obviously it didnt. so if you fight a lot now, you will fight a lot later. sometimes your differences are just to big of differences to deal with. ya know? well i love you more than you know. and i hope you make the right decision, and you arent just gonna stay cuz you think it will get better, because it wont.
Hard to give advice without sounding preachy-like-a mom. Love you!
Glad you want input.
Hmm.
Strong relationships have good communication as the foundation. Does arguing play into good communication? I think not- usually arguing expends a whole lot of energy in useless places. Mature adults don't frequently argue--- maybe they disagree about things, and agree to disagree, but plain old arguing means that there is something at the root of the relationship that is not right. Too many differences, perhaps.
It is much nicer to have someone by your side that you do not need to argue with. Someone that loves you and appreciates you for who who are- including your opinions, little habits, body, smile, abilities, things you are able to put into the relationship, .... you know, cherish you.
It sounds to me like perhaps that is not going on- and no amount of arguing will make it so.
Of course, it is hard to tell from a quick post on a public blog.
And you know that your true friends will love you- and accept your decision. But if we see you self destructing (I am afraid that is what you are ding, my dear) we'll let you know. And don't let the pride thing get in the way and try to justify decisions and actions..... you might be between a rock and a hard place- and you have folks who love you that you can run to if you need to run.
I know how to wire money for gasoline if you need it- you can pick cash up at any greyhound station.... just call me if that is a problem you are having- we'll step up your MN trip right now if you need to scram.
i think you should make a list of pros and cons of the realationship you have with this guy, and just see which one weighs out the other.
but on the other hand you need to find a guy who likes you for you and that even though he may not enjoy some little habits you have, he still loves you anyways. i guess it also depends on what you are fighting about. if your figthing about stupid little things, then how are you going to be able to work the big things out if you can't even get through the little things?
you know i love you and i will support you in anything you do, but make sure those things you will make you happy. because reall, that's all that matters to me.
abigail i miss you :( and i love you. and i support you in any decision you make - even if it's way lame. i love you lovah :) - jillyen
Hey boo...you know I love you right? I just want you to be safe and happy. Most important to both of those is you relationship with Jesus. Make sure that's straight first and then you can figure out everything else. Nothing else can fill that place in your heart. I love you so much and I hope to see you soon. Take it easy love :)
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